Don't tell me that you don't believe in God. If you believe in the existence of love, then you should believe in the existence of God, because love is the work of God and God is love. (Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.-1 John 4:8) Therefore, the topic, love cannot be discussed without God.
I strongly agree that teenagers shouldn't involve in any boy & girl relationship before 18 because they not mature enough to handle it. But why? Why today still got a lot of teenagers involve in it? Because they are lack of love, they don't understand the truth of love.
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. (...) And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love."
-1 Corinthians 13: 4-8, 13
Nowadays, people misunderstood with love. They involved in relationship because they want to be loved. But it's wrong, totally wrong. Ya, indeed we are made to be loved, but the source of love is way off beam. The main and only source of love is from God above. We are made to be loved by Him. I'm one of the example. Nothing can satisfy our hearts, only God's love does. No matter how we search for love in this world. We did enjoyed in the process. But afterwards, it will all back to the same. Dissatisfaction and a hole that can never be filled in our heart.
That hole appeared when we are separated from God because of our sins. But this doesn't mean that He didn't love us anymore, just that we are separated. We still can restore the relationship between God and us. How? Jesus~ He already bears all our sins and died on the cross two thousand years ago. We should be the one who die because we are the one sinning. Yet, He loves us and bore for us. So, that we are not judged and we are clean when we believe in Him. And the relationship is rebuilt. That's true love. (For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.-John 3:16)
No matter how disgusting, dirty, sinful, useless we are, He will always welcomes us with opened arms. Just like a loving father and a rebellious son. No matter how many times the son did wrong, when he apologise to the father, the father will surely forgive him and accept him. Sometimes the father has to do his own responsibility as a father to punish his son la~ But afterwards, they are together again. (The Parable of The Lost Son-Luke 15:11-32)
This generation of youth is attacked by the spirit of orphan. Huh? What is that? A fatherless generation. A person will seek for love if he/she lack of love. If you give attention on those people
who involve in relationships crazily, which means can change his/her girl friend/boy friend frequently in a short period of time, you will realise that they have serious family problem. Ya, I know some of you would say, "My family no problem what, my dad, my mum, my brothers, my sisters, living together, no divorce." But lack of communication or always quarrel, this can be classified as family problem too. A guy often seeks for girl friend because he is lack of mother's love; in the other way, a girl often seeks for boy friend because she is lack of father's love. Love starts from God above, and then family.
I remember what Pastor Jay said. He said, if he marry and has a daughter, he will make his daughter sit on his leg. He will kiss her and tell her that she is beautiful. Everyday, he will do the same thing. And when she grow up, if guys tell her that she is beautiful in order to chase her, this is what she will answer: "Ya, I know~ My father tell me so everyday." Therefore, family's love acts an important role.
Most of the teenagers today involved in relationship just want to have the feel to be loved. They enjoy being loved from physical, means they love to be praised, to be touched. Some even involve in relationship because they don't want to be outdated? Shut up! This is damn stupid. Relationship is not for us to play with, to fool around. At the beginning of the world, God created the world, and He put, not a man and a man, not a woman and a woman, but a man and a woman together. (For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh. The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame.-Genesis 2:24-25) Like what I always say, if you are not planning to marry, don't you ever involve in relationship. Relationship is made for marriage, and marriage is made holy and heavenly.
And I heard before statements like this, "I don't care whether I have it forever, what I care is I had it before.", "If you love me, give me, have sex with me to show me that you love me." Girls~ Listen to me. An advice for you. If any guy or your boy friend said that, you can just dumped them and stay away from them. This is an arrogant and senseless act!
Must READ:
Guys are easily aroused by their eyes and girls are easily aroused by their ears. So, guys should be careful of what they see. And girls, wear 'more', not 'less'. Girl should be careful of what they hear. And guys, think before you say!
Advice for those who are in relationship. People will treat others as they want them to treat them back the same. So, you will realise that guys will go to gym in order make themselves fit and muscular to attract girls; girls will always text message to guys in order to express their love draw her boy friend's attention. So, ... should know what I mean ba~ Haha... Guys, you should text more message to your girl friend and praise them. (girls: yeah!) And girls, go to gym! Work out! Keep fit! (guys: ow yes!) xD
This is the truth of love. Love is not about having, but giving. Love is not selfish, but selfless. True love is sacrifice. The definition of love is Jesus Christ. He has the perfect love. Therefore, you have to know Him in order to know love.
Phew~ Finally~ Too many to write. I don't know whether will have part 4 or not. Anyway, hope this helps. God bless. With love. ^^
Nowadays, people misunderstood with love. They involved in relationship because they want to be loved. But it's wrong, totally wrong. Ya, indeed we are made to be loved, but the source of love is way off beam. The main and only source of love is from God above. We are made to be loved by Him. I'm one of the example. Nothing can satisfy our hearts, only God's love does. No matter how we search for love in this world. We did enjoyed in the process. But afterwards, it will all back to the same. Dissatisfaction and a hole that can never be filled in our heart.
That hole appeared when we are separated from God because of our sins. But this doesn't mean that He didn't love us anymore, just that we are separated. We still can restore the relationship between God and us. How? Jesus~ He already bears all our sins and died on the cross two thousand years ago. We should be the one who die because we are the one sinning. Yet, He loves us and bore for us. So, that we are not judged and we are clean when we believe in Him. And the relationship is rebuilt. That's true love. (For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.-John 3:16)
No matter how disgusting, dirty, sinful, useless we are, He will always welcomes us with opened arms. Just like a loving father and a rebellious son. No matter how many times the son did wrong, when he apologise to the father, the father will surely forgive him and accept him. Sometimes the father has to do his own responsibility as a father to punish his son la~ But afterwards, they are together again. (The Parable of The Lost Son-Luke 15:11-32)
This generation of youth is attacked by the spirit of orphan. Huh? What is that? A fatherless generation. A person will seek for love if he/she lack of love. If you give attention on those people
who involve in relationships crazily, which means can change his/her girl friend/boy friend frequently in a short period of time, you will realise that they have serious family problem. Ya, I know some of you would say, "My family no problem what, my dad, my mum, my brothers, my sisters, living together, no divorce." But lack of communication or always quarrel, this can be classified as family problem too. A guy often seeks for girl friend because he is lack of mother's love; in the other way, a girl often seeks for boy friend because she is lack of father's love. Love starts from God above, and then family.
I remember what Pastor Jay said. He said, if he marry and has a daughter, he will make his daughter sit on his leg. He will kiss her and tell her that she is beautiful. Everyday, he will do the same thing. And when she grow up, if guys tell her that she is beautiful in order to chase her, this is what she will answer: "Ya, I know~ My father tell me so everyday." Therefore, family's love acts an important role.
Most of the teenagers today involved in relationship just want to have the feel to be loved. They enjoy being loved from physical, means they love to be praised, to be touched. Some even involve in relationship because they don't want to be outdated? Shut up! This is damn stupid. Relationship is not for us to play with, to fool around. At the beginning of the world, God created the world, and He put, not a man and a man, not a woman and a woman, but a man and a woman together. (For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh. The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame.-Genesis 2:24-25) Like what I always say, if you are not planning to marry, don't you ever involve in relationship. Relationship is made for marriage, and marriage is made holy and heavenly.
And I heard before statements like this, "I don't care whether I have it forever, what I care is I had it before.", "If you love me, give me, have sex with me to show me that you love me." Girls~ Listen to me. An advice for you. If any guy or your boy friend said that, you can just dumped them and stay away from them. This is an arrogant and senseless act!
Must READ:
Guys are easily aroused by their eyes and girls are easily aroused by their ears. So, guys should be careful of what they see. And girls, wear 'more', not 'less'. Girl should be careful of what they hear. And guys, think before you say!
Advice for those who are in relationship. People will treat others as they want them to treat them back the same. So, you will realise that guys will go to gym in order make themselves fit and muscular to attract girls; girls will always text message to guys in order to express their love draw her boy friend's attention. So, ... should know what I mean ba~ Haha... Guys, you should text more message to your girl friend and praise them. (girls: yeah!) And girls, go to gym! Work out! Keep fit! (guys: ow yes!) xD
This is the truth of love. Love is not about having, but giving. Love is not selfish, but selfless. True love is sacrifice. The definition of love is Jesus Christ. He has the perfect love. Therefore, you have to know Him in order to know love.
Phew~ Finally~ Too many to write. I don't know whether will have part 4 or not. Anyway, hope this helps. God bless. With love. ^^
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