Thursday, November 12, 2009

Relationship (BGR) pt. 1


Here I am to discuss a very complicated topic: relationship. As you can see from the video above, the relationship I will talk about today is not relationship between family or friends, is the relationship between boy and girl. I will never understand what the world is thinking about this relationship. This topic always makes a hot topic among the youth.

Why do I say so? For example, there are lots of tests about relationship whether in magazine or internet, "Who will be your future partner?", "Who is missing you now?", "How deeply in love are you?", "How attractive are you?". Surely these tests will draw a lot of attention from teenagers. Don't tell me you never did it before, cause me too. There were also things like, different style of kissing or hugging? Kiss on lips, neck, ears, forehead, and so on hug from front or back, shows different meaning and personality. How guys/girls want girls/guys to treat them? Kiss her when she's angry? Girls love kissing in rain? Don't talk too much with another guy in front of him? Tall guys more secure? and bla bla bla...
Media is teaching us the techniques? It doesn't seem to be working out everytime~

And, youngsters always like to gether together to chat about...... Got'cha! You should know what am I mentioning. Most of the time, the group is formed by a gang of best friends and is according to their sex. What they will talk about is, who they like, how they think about that guy or girl and so on. They will also show each other their sms in the phone. Or, they will play truth or dare as an excuse. They will behave like they don't feel like telling the truth, but actually they enjoy. At first, the listeners will promise to keep it as secret, but it won't keep long. Yet, sometimes this helps, because some couples begin because of this.

There are lots more actions which show the interest on this subject. How about for those who are in love? Or in a relationship? It was like heaven on earth everyday. Haha... I think everyone should understands the feeling, even kids also gone through that. Everyday, miss him/her, think of the time when they spent together, hold hands, hug, kiss, sms or telephone almost up to 5 hours, and yet don't want to hang up the phone ("Bye~" "..." "Why don't want to hang up the phone?" "You hang up first~" =.= duh~). When hanging out, wear shirt with the same colour, take a lot of picture, and the most famous place that couple always go: cinema. Reason: because it's dark inside the cinema... Know what I'm saying? Wish that the time stops at the moment forever.
They spend all their money, time and strength for the relationship, in order to get closer to each other, physically and mentally. They won't mind how much they had sacrificed. One day, if they calculate the amount of money they spent just only in relationship, the digits for sure are frightening.

"I don't think we mean to be together." The most common excuse for break up.
So, how about breaking up? How to describe the feeling? Pictures in black and white. Full of sadness, missing, anger and mind full of questions. Don't feel like living in this world anymore, hate themselves, feel that they're stupid. Cried for days, weeks, even months, can't let go, can't face the reality, wish that they were dreaming. No mood to do anything. Unfortunately, some will commit suicide.
Or, some will try to make themselves busy, in order to forget the relationship. They will eat a lot, go anywhere they want, hang out with friends and talk a lot, do the things that they never done it before. They were trying to run away from reality.

Too many things to write. I don't think I can finish them all by myself. Somemore, different people have different views. If don't mind, please leave your opinion at comment. I will appreciate it. Thank you. God bless~ ^^

(To be Continue)

1 comment:

  1. We cannot change the fact that we will fall in love no matter under what circumstances. We cannot easily change how people feel towards relationship. Just like you, I fall in love and still do. I got rejected before but I'd still live like a normal human being. And about the age thing, it's still a question mark. We do not know when is the right time to start, we do not know who is the right one, we do not know what's best for the time being. There are too many temptations and challenges in life but we just have to trust our heart and leave it all to God to decide. I'm sure that everyone will find their love ones one day. ^^

    Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires. Song of songs 4:5

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